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I currently have a weekly slot available, on Thursday afternoons. Different slots do open up from time to time.
We can arrange a first session in which we will get to know each other and explore what you want to get out of counselling. Often, people find this initial session helpful in getting an outside view of their situation. If, after the first meeting, you decide that counselling is not for you, or that you would prefer to see a different counsellor, I will have no problem at all with that. It is important for you to find a counsellor that you feel you can work with. And I will happily refund the cost of that first session if you wish.
If you are happy to proceed, then we will have weekly ongoing sessions, regularly at the same time each week.
All of what we discuss is of course confidential, unless you give me reason to think that someone, especially a child, is at real risk of harm.
Please note my couple sessions are 70 minutes - I find this works much better for couples than the "normal" 50-minute therapy session.
The charge for the first meeting and ongoing sessions is £75 per 70-minute session.
Can we talk by phone before we first meet?
Yes, of course!
Before having that phone conversation, I always want to make sure I have time set aside, phone charged up, and a quiet place for a private discussion. So please either use the contact form or email me to arrange a time to talk.
How many sessions will we need?
This varies a lot. Bad relationship habits build up over time, and can get very ingrained. They can take quite a long time to change. There can also sometimes be complicating factors like addictions, other people involved, or difficult life histories. It's not possible to quote a figure in advance as to how many sessions will be needed.
A lot of the best research studies on therapy say that typically six months is needed before real change is achieved, and that agrees with my own experience. However, with goodwill, some problems can be resolved more quickly. On the other hand, some couples like to keep coming, to have a safe space for discussion and exploration, for a longer time. I always encourage couples to think about what needs to change, so that we can be aiming towards where they are able to resolve problems on their own.
Can we see you if one of us is already having counselling or therapy?
We will need to talk about this, but in brief, my answer is yes, if the other counsellor or therapist is aware of it and agrees. It is up to you how much you disclose of what happens in your individual therapy. The only situation I would caution you about is if your individual therapist or counsellor is suggesting that you should end the relationship, in which case we would be working at cross purposes.
Can I see you individually?
Yes, if the problem is a relationship problem. For example, if you have a pattern of repeatedly getting into bad relationships of the same kind, or you want space to reflect on why a relationship ended and what you can learn from it. Sometimes people want counselling individually if they feel they are in an abusive relationship but are not sure, or if they have recently managed to leave one.
Also, if you are currently in a relationship and your partner is not willing to attend.